I admit that our relationship became physically hurting. NO, I NEVER SLAPPED OR PUNCHED HER. Yes, I pulled her…but because her behavior is becoming scandalous. In other words, I literally pulled her out of the scene. Oh well, maybe the ideal thing to do is just leave her cold much to her embarrassment, but, like I said, she has leverage. She was psychologically and emotionally hurting me. I allowed myself to be controlled by her. I was controlled even to the point of convincing me to resign to teaching, my first love. My preparation is teaching. I got the job. Yes, not paying well, but sure is the job that I was prepared and was good in that. When I resigned into teaching and went to our family business, the controlling becomes more apparent, as she usually calls up to go with her in this and that or I “needed” to be with her.